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I was talking/chatting online and my mates were talking about a dating website they had been on. One of them did not seem to have any luck and the other tried to help.
Bob:
Are you meeting many people off this dating website?
Sam:
Some. Why?
Bob:
Just wondering if anyone is actually having success.
Sam:
Are you getting any phone numbers at all?
Bob:
A few, but the conversations do not seem to go much further.
Sam:
What is the first thing you do when you get their cellphone/mobile
number?
Bob:
Well, I usually text them so they know my phone number.
Sam:
And then what do you do? normally?
Bob:
Just text them a few times, give them a call about Thursday to find out
what they are doing in the weekend.
Sam:
Just hang with me here, and I will see what the difference of what you
do and what I do is... So what happens between you ringing them and
them not replying?
Bob:
Usually ring on Thursday, then they usually text back and say they have
had a better offer and dont hear back
Sam:
A better offer? So do you go for the ones that want a one night stand
or go for the ones that want a relationship? (are they looking for
friendship/relationships/sex or love?)
Bob:
I just message anyone.
Sam:
Well the tips I would offer you are:
Just because they gave you their phone number, doesn't mean that you need to give them yours straight away. If you send them a text with in the same week, they see that you are eager. If you don't use their phone number at all, they will wonder what mistake they made. People want what they can't have. If they know they can easily have you, then you are not what they want most.
Lastly - Go for a long term relationship... The girls like that more and you don't have to keep looking all the time.
Tags: Dating, Flirting, Mistakes, Nzdating, Wimps
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