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Getting a womans phone number

Getting a woman’s phone number is NO BIG DEAL.

By that, we mean that it is easy and harmless. But how far into an interaction do you get a woman's phone number? ...and how do you do it?

We could provide examples of how and when you should get a phone number for hundreds of different situations, but all you need to remember is:

Assume that she will give it to you - be confident and don't display apologetic or nervous body language.
Do it when the time is right - when you have to part ways for some reason, or you happen to be talking about meeting up again, etc.
It is NO BIG DEAL, so be relaxed and natural about it.
Tell her to GIVE you the number instead of ASKING for it. For example: If you think that she's cool and you also like her sense of humour, be honest and direct and say something like "Hey...you've been fun and you seem cool. We should talk again sometime - put your number in here."

Then follow it up with something simple like, “Cool, I’ll give you a call sometime.”

If possible, avoid making plans on the spot. For example: Saying, “I’ll call you on Tuesday and set up a time for us to meet and go for coffee on XYZ St” is a big no-no.

Why?

Because setting up plans straight away ruins the ANTICIPATION.... and women LOVE anticipation.

You want women to be thinking things like:

Will he call?
What will he say when he calls?
Will he want to go on a date?
I wonder where we'll go!”

...instead of things like:

“Hhh, that guy from the bar said he'd be calling me today to organize a coffee date. I can’t be bothered going for a coffee this week…so, I’ll just say that I have plans.”

Getting a womans phone number

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